Are you dating a Grown matured man or are you thinking to plunge your toes into more matured water? Well, then you have come to right place to know about the facts of Dating someone older than you.There is something too jazzy about dating an old man. Simply looking at the instances of George Clooney, Brad Pitt and such handsome hunk they look better now than their twenties and these men are like the older they become the better they look just like a fine old vine. And not dating someone like that is so not happening.
It’s quite thrilling to find few pros and cons of dating a man couple of years older than you.
1. Dating someone older is great because an Elder Partner is a Complete Person
An older man will have had all the Experiences in the World and is more knowledgeable to be your mentor at times. Also, he is balanced and has built-in wealth. He is well-balanced both emotionally and practically as all educated and modern women want a man who can handle their temperament. He has all chivalry and maturity. You
2. Your Partner may act a bit Stubborn
He may act a bit Stubborn as with him what you see is what you get. Anyhow, women can’t change a Stubborn man but both have to bend equally in a healthy relationship.
3. They know how to make “IT” work
To be romantic takes time and knowledge, not only experience can bring the flavor of romance. With hugs, kisses, flowers and lit up candles, he is excellent in practice of lovemaking.
4. With them, Jealousy acquires a Backseat
A grown matured man have already bid Goodbye to Jealousy! Yes, he will not bother if you get around with your girlfriends; he won’t even force you to take him along to your family get along. He will respect your space out of a relationship and that’s what a Gentleman acts like. He knows why he picked you and he knows his worth so relax he will never be empowered by Jealousy.
5. They tend to be Emotionally Balanced
An elder man who has achieved maturity will never try to escape from emotionally unstable circumstances as he will never dodge at the prospect of delicate conversation. Instead, he will sit down and think calmly being than have a conversation with you with a balanced mind.
6. No more Texting Games
When you are with an elder partner you do not have to worry about text games. They do not like to communicate through time-consuming modes of contact. They don’t believe in wasting too much time so they will rather prefer to accept the straight approach of communicating.
7. Have lived an entire life before meeting You
Yes, ladies, he has lived an entire life before meeting you – by entire life we mean all the things in the world. Your Partner has years of affairs, bad relationships, friendships, work experience, heartbreak, falling in love (even marriage) and more than you couldn’t possibly have. They might have had their first date before you were trained for sh*t.
8. You will keep hearing “Age is just a number”
They are so egoistic and insane when it comes to their age. Every time you try to make them understand the point making them understand that he/she is older than you then in return you will hear “Age is just a number”. By this pick up line they think they could date younger and hotter women/men.
9. Your Partner may not be able to connect to your Day To Day Struggles
A lot of day to day struggles you find in your early twenties is different than the struggles in thirties. You may freak out hearing your friend’s wedding while your half of your Partner’s friends are married and may have kids too. You may even get insecure if his/her ex like a bunch of pics on Instagram while he may find it okay as few of his/her friends may be dealing with divorces. Your elder Partner may find it really difficult to fully understand your day to day Struggles – in this context he/she should give you some respect as well as personal space.
10. They are more Financial Savvy than You
Your maturely grown Partner might have learned enough lessons on saving money, managing the accounts and balancing his/her checkbooks. Your Partner’s dream of buying a home or Sedan cars sounds much like a reality as they have saved a hell lot of money from their years of working while buying a home or car is a mere dream for you as you do not have enough savings. They are Financially Savvy than you so their needs for buying anything is not a mere dream.
11. They have years of Experience you haven’t Bumped into yet
Your Partner has years of experience that you will hear “When I was in my twenties what I experienced is….” a lot of time. The fact that he/she have lived longer may make you feel childlike every time when he makes comparisons and narrates his twenties experiences.
12. You have the alibi to act Kiddish
Enjoy the fact that being a couple of years younger than your Partner gives you the freedom to act childish. Whenever your Partner tells you “God, you’re acting like a child!” you have the alibi to revert back to them “Yes I am your little girl/boy and I can act like a child – No big a deal!” He/She will hardly have any reply back to this excuse you make.
13. Your Partner will have lot of Stories to tell
Your elder Partner will always come with lot of stories to tell you from their “Book of Life!” They have more experiences in their life so they will come with many stories every now and then. You may listen to their stories since you started dating him/her and still not hear everything.